In the realm of parenting, where dirty diapers are as routine as cuddles, a new idea is causing a stir: asking babies for permission before changing their nappies. This concept has sparked both interest and controversy, leaving many people baffled.
Deanne Carson, a self-proclaimed sexuality education expert, advocates for this practice. She believes parents should start a dialogue about consent from the very beginning of a child’s life. Though unconventional, Carson argues that even infants can benefit from a culture of consent.
During a notable appearance on ABC, Carson shared her thoughts on embedding this concept in early childhood. She emphasizes using non-verbal cues, particularly eye contact, to communicate that a child’s input is valued. While newborns can’t verbally respond, Carson suggests that a brief pause, combined with non-verbal communication, can establish a foundation of respect between parent and child.
‘Sexuality expert’ says parents should ask for baby’s consent when changing nappies.
Yes, really… pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i
— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) May 10, 2018
As expected with any controversial idea, there are skeptics. Many online voices question the practicality of seeking consent from a baby who can’t understand the situation. Some even mock the idea, highlighting the absurdity of expecting a verbal response from a newborn.
Meanwhile, another parenting expert, John Rosemond, weighs in, opposing the seemingly harmless act of high-fiving children. Rosemond contends that such gestures undermine parental authority and respect, potentially leading to discipline issues in the future.
And what happens when baby says no? Do it anyway? Whoa now there is the real problem
— Glenda 🍃🌻🍃 (@TweetsbyGlenda) May 10, 2018
Either she has never wrestled a toddler during a change or worse, she just left hers in a shitty nappy until it was ready to consent. OMFG.
— Michael Lyten (@lytening67) May 11, 2018
— -@feather1952@aus.social (@feather1952) May 10, 2018
In a world where every parenting choice seems significant, these discussions highlight the complexities of raising children. From consent in diaper changes to the appropriateness of high-fives, every action influences the parent-child relationship.
So, what’s the conclusion? Are we overthinking parenting, or are these conversations crucial for fostering respectful relationships? As the debate continues, one thing is clear: parenting is far from simple. It’s a journey filled with surprises, challenges, and, of course, dirty diapers. But through it all, the quest for understanding and improvement persists.
